http://www.somrod.com/blog/archives/92 An unpolluted mind with a supreme idea is the greatest weapon. Only time will tell if you are adequately armed. Thu, 28 Aug 2008 19:00:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 http://www.somrod.com/blog/archives/92#comment-26 Kat Tue, 30 Aug 2005 20:00:42 +0000 http://www.somrod.com/blog/archives/92#comment-26 wedddings are torturous aren't they? especially for the one(s) who are planning it. as the groom you're: too involved and accused of being controlling, stifling, cheap...etc. too aloof and be accused of not caring it's a fine fine line you have to walk on to be categorized as being "supportive" there are 2 schools of thought on wedding day expenditures: it's only one day, why waste the $ it's only one day, spend the $ and don't cut out on the things you want i took the former and still regret it to this day. if you really love your girl, don't let her do this to herself even if nothing goes wrong on your big day, if she can't look back on it with no regrets and be happy; it's all pointless if only i could turn back time...... wedddings are torturous aren’t they? especially for the one(s) who are planning it.
as the groom you’re:
too involved and accused of being controlling, stifling, cheap…etc.
too aloof and be accused of not caring
it’s a fine fine line you have to walk on to be categorized as being “supportive”
there are 2 schools of thought on wedding day expenditures:
it’s only one day, why waste the $
it’s only one day, spend the $ and don’t cut out on the things you want
i took the former and still regret it to this day.
if you really love your girl, don’t let her do this to herself
even if nothing goes wrong on your big day, if she can’t look back on it with no regrets and be happy; it’s all pointless
if only i could turn back time……

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